Can I go out to lunch after volunteering at a food bank?

Facilitator opens with a prompt to individuals:

• Tell us about what you ate for breakfast or what you plan to eat for lunch/dinner.

Facilitator continues:

• Now that we’ve opened with a discussion of food, let’s start our exploration by answering the question – what is hunger?

Facilitator takes responses, then continues below:

Hunger is the feeling someone has when they don’t have food. We’ve all experienced that. Now, let’s distinguish that from food insecurity. Food insecurity is the consistent lack of food to have a healthy life because of one’s economic situation. While all of us are entering today’s service having felt hunger at some point in our lives, it’s likely that not all of us have experienced food insecurity

Facilitator continues reading:

Consider the reality – it’s likely that some of us had breakfast this morning at our home or grabbed something to eat on the way here. It’s also likely that some of us had comfortable place to sleep, had a shower this morning. Beyond that, it’s likely that some of us had more needs met like having a physically and psychologically safe space to call home. Those small things can be big privileges to some of the people we’ll spend our time with today. Let’s just hold that for a moment. It’s not a reason to feel guilty. It’s a reality. Given that we’re together as a group, some of you came with friends, it is likely some of you will go out for lunch/dinner after this, where you might spend more than a week’s worth of groceries for a client today.

Facilitator reads:

Toggling back and forth between these different realities and lived experiences can be disorienting. Thinking about our own experiences alongside what is likely the vastly different experiences of others, leads us to ask – What can we bring into our service today? What should we hold back?

Facilitator prompts:

• When might you have felt this dissonance before? What did you do about it?

Facilitator continues:

One way we can explore our feelings around this privilege of food security is to dive deeper into the value of intentionality, or having kavanah (intention).When we are deliberate about and aware of every act that we perform and every experience that we have, then we are being intentional. It’s mostly a mental state of mind, but it demonstrates itself in the actions we take.

The notion of having kavanah is most often raised in the context of tefilla, prayer, but can be broadly applied to how we move in the world. In many ways, intention can look like a mindset we hold during our volunteering. What are those mindsets? They can be attitudes we try to hold or specifically not hold. Or, it can be what we want to lean into.

Facilitator prompts the group:

• Look at the image below. What does it conjure in your mind? Why? Share your responses

Facilitator continues:

One classical element in establishing an intentional mindset in tefillah, Jewish prayer, is movement. Before reciting the Amidah, which is the central Jewish prayer of gratitude and request, Jewish tradition encourages us to take three steps forward to get into the mindset of approaching the Divine. As we step into a different reality, these steps give us a formal way to bring our kavanot, intentions, into this space or routine ritual.

*PROMPT BEFORE SERVICE*

Together I’m going to invite us to take three steps together and formally bring our intentions into this work. You can say them out loud or to yourself, but the goal is that we’ll hold these intentions with us throughout our service time.